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Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Finding the Right Preschool


By Katie M

The deadlines to register at area preschools are looming. Most registration deadlines occur between the end of January and early February. So, if you are hoping to send your little one off to school next fall, you need to do a little homework of your own first.

I found some great information online that may help you decide what preschool is right for you (and your child!). Below is a checklist of things to keep top-of-mind when interviewing schools, and then descriptions of some of the philosophies followed in preschools. Philosophies are pretty important. It’s good to think about your child’s personality and learning styles – and how they might fit in - when reading about the different philosophies.

Regardless of philosophy, here’s a good checklist to keep in mind when visiting or interviewing any school:

Teachers Look for:
Low turnover rate
Low teacher/student ratio
Early education degree-are teachers required to have advanced training?
Some schools, such as Montessori, have specific teacher training. Do their preschool teachers have it?
Teachers who talk to kids and keep them informed about their actions

Classroom Look for:
Clean, child-safe (no sharp or jagged edges on furniture or toys) environment
Age-appropriate materials
Toys and materials for free play
Safe active play area
Children are actively engaged in work or play

Schedule Find out:
What are the hours? Is extended care available?
How much time do children have for free play? Physical activity? Rest and naps?
Is the school open year-round? What days is it closed for Christmas, spring vacations?

Accreditation Look for:
Is the preschool licensed by the state?
Is the preschool accredited by the NAEYC?
Some schools, such as Waldorf schools, require affiliation with the umbrella organization. Is the school affiliated?

And then there are the philosophies to consider. Below are quick descriptions of the philosophies I found online, and hopefully these will help simplify your decision-making.

Montessori
The underlying idea of Montessori is that children are individual learners with teachers as guides. Children participate in a variety of hands-on activities. Play materials are designed for specific purposes, which guide the child's playtime. Montessori fosters personal responsibility by encouraging children to take care of their own personal needs and belongings, such as preparing their own snacks and cleaning up their toys. A wide range of ages may learn together in one classroom, and children are encouraged to help each other learn.

The focus on individual learning allows students to work at their own pace, which promotes a healthy environment for special needs children.

Montessori instructors graduate from a special training program. Schools have the option to affiliate with the Association Montessori Internationale (AMI or AMI-USA) or the American Montessori Society (AMS) but be aware that a school may use the Montessori name without being affiliated with a Montessori organization. Be careful to check the mission statement and curriculum of your Montessori school.

Waldorf
The underlying principle of the Waldorf program is dependable routine. The daily and weekly schedule follows a consistent rhythm, and teachers often remain with the same group of students for up to eight years, allowing them to form a trusting relationship. The atmosphere is home-like, with all-natural furnishings and playthings and a group-oriented curriculum. Waldorf emphasizes creative learning, such as play-acting, story readings, singing, and cooking. The goal of this system is to develop the child emotionally and physically as well as intellectually. A Waldorf school is good for students who thrive on predictable rhythms.

Various national and international associations regulate Waldorf programs, and a school must be affiliated with the local organization to use the Waldorf name. Teachers must receive special training through a Waldorf organization. In North America, this organization is the Association of Waldorf Schools of North America.

Reggio Emilia
Similar to Montessori, students take the lead in learning. The curriculum consists of projects that reflect the interests of the students. Teachers observe the spontaneous curiosity of their students, and then guide them to create projects that reflect their pursuits. Children are expected to learn through mistakes rather than correction, as they are considered equal learners. Their play and projects are documented in photographs and records of their own words, which allows teachers and parents to follow each student's progress and helps children see their actions as meaningful. Reggio Emilia schools emphasize creativity and artistic representation, so they may be a good choice for students who are learning English.

Project-Based
Schools with a project-based approach consider children to be individual learners and teachers to be guides. Students work together and with their teachers to negotiate, plan and work through projects. Their lessons are enhanced with real-world connections, field trips and projects. This approach encourages skill application and positive learning habits by attempting to make learning as pleasant and self-motivated as possible. This is a good program for children who work well in an unstructured environment.

High/Scope
The program deemphasizes social and emotional development in favor of academic skill development. Children and adults learn collaboratively, and students are encouraged to make independent decisions about materials and activities. High/Scope advocates learning experiences such as arranging things in order, counting and telling time as well as more creative and linguistic activities such as singing and dictating stories. Some programs involve computers in the learning process. High/Scope was originally developed for at-risk urban children and is appropriate for children who benefit from one-on-one attention, including special needs children.

Bank Street
Bank Street preschools are based on the early childhood program run by Bank Street College of Education in New York City. In Bank Street programs, children are regarded as active learners and the world around us is considered to be the best teaching tool. Lessons focus on the social sciences (such as history, geography and anthropology). Artistic and scientific lessons are included within cultural lessons resulting in an integrated curriculum. Classroom toys are basic, encouraging children to exercise imagination during play. Children may work alone or in groups, with specially trained teachers guiding. Bank Street programs are good for children who learn well in an unstructured environment.

Religious
Many churches and religious schools offer preschool programs. They may follow any preschool philosophy in determining curriculum, and they may incorporate varying degrees of religious content and/or training. If you are interested in a religious-based program, be sure to ask about their curriculum and philosophy, too.

Community
Community centers and childcare centers often have preschool programs. You can find preschools through your local recreation department, YMCA or Jewish Community Center. Like religious schools, they may follow any one preschool philosophy or a combination, so it's a good idea to ask questions about their philosophy and curriculum when you are checking these schools out.

Cooperative
Parents who want a big role in their child's preschool education may want to consider a cooperative preschool, which can follow any preschool philosophy or a combination. Its distinguishing characteristic is that parents take on significant roles at the school. Participating parents take turns to fulfill various duties, such as school upkeep or preparing snacks. A professional teacher is usually hired, but may be assisted by parents in the classroom. This can be a less expensive alternative, as heavy parental involvement minimizes extra costs. Try looking for schools supported by a regional or state organization that regulates parent participation preschools in your area. Also consider finding a school that has not joined an organization or even starting a new one yourself or with a group of similar-minded parents!

Developmentally Appropriate/Play-Based
Developmentally appropriate (or play-based) preschools are fairly common. Their primary principle is to promote participation in age-appropriate activities, such as unstructured hands-on play, group story-time, and themed activities. Kids are encouraged to learn through play, though some have added more academic content in response to demand. Play-based philosophies may draw from multiple philosophies such as Montessori or Waldorf.

Language Immersion
In a language immersion preschool, all or most of the classes are conducted entirely in the new language. The teacher may demonstrate her meaning while she speaks, but rarely or never translates. This method is more appropriate for young children than translation learning (the more common teaching method for adults). The content may be guided by other preschool philosophies. The focus on a new language develops the child's language acquisition ability while providing fluency in the new language. Language immersion is best for children who are developing first language skills at a normal rate. It may temporarily slow development of the first language, and so it's inappropriate for children who are struggling in this area.

International School
An international school is usually a school instituted by a foreign country in another country. The language of the country of origin (often English) is typically used to conduct most or all of the classes. These schools were often set up for the benefit of the children of expatriates and local children who wish to learn the language. An international school may teach other languages in addition to the main language. These schools are best for children who are temporarily in a foreign country or for parents who want their children to learn the new language.

What have been your experiences with the different preschool philosophies, and what's your favorite? Add your comment below!

Don’t forget to register to win a FREE 3-month membership at Rush Fitness Complex near you. Just click on this link to be entered into this Smarty Give-Away designed exclusively for our loyal newsletter subscribers. The lucky winner will be announced on January 29.

Additionally, EVERY TriadSmartyPants' newsletter subscriber is eligible to receive a FREE 30-day membership as well. All you have to do is
email us here anytime between now and 5 AM January 28 to say you are interested. We will check to be sure you are a subscriber, and then we'll send you back an email confirming your eligibility for the FREE 30-day membership. You can then take that confirmation email from TriadSmartyPants into any of the seven Triad locations to redeem.


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Monday, January 19, 2009

January Giveaway: Enter Now to Win a FREE 3-Month Membership



By Katie M

There’s no better way to kick off the New Year then a FREE 3-month membership to The Rush Fitness Complex. And with seven locations throughout the Triad, there really are no excuses now. Our friends at The Rush are giving one lucky Smarty newsletter subscriber this amazing offer, and all you have to do is fill out a short questionnaire by clicking the link below. This opportunity ends 5 AM on January 28, so after you enter, be sure to spread the word to all your other Smarty Moms throughout the Triad.

In case you haven’t noticed, The Rush has been popping up all over the Triad. In fact, the new location in downtown Winston-Salem is still celebrating its grand opening. Its spacious, high energy and sparkling clean clubs are designed to keep you ‘pumped up’ throughout your workout. Each location offers the finest hi-tech equipment including elliptical, bikes, treadmills and steppers.

The Rush also has expert fitness consultants on-hand to help you design a powerful, personalized workout – and offer nutritional advice – all to help you meet your New Years’ goals. The Rush will give you the personal attention you need to succeed, the confidence to challenge yourself, the focus to achieve noticeable results, and a workout plan to fit your life.

And while you’re enjoying your working out, you can rest assured that your kids are having fun too. The KidKare facilities not only offer day care and a play land, but also exercise equipment designed exclusively for kids with programs like Kid Fit, Kids Day and Kids Aerobics. KidKare is open seven days a week: M-F from 8 am to 1 pm, and 4 pm to 9 pm; Saturday from 9 am to 3 pm; and Sunday from 1 pm to 4 pm.

You can find The Rush at the following locations throughout the Triad:

High Point
2620 N Main St. High Point, NC 27265
336-854-7874

Brassfield
3711 Battleground Ave. Greensboro, NC 27410
336-854-7874

Wendover
4835 W. Wendover Ave., Suite 133 Jamestown, NC 27282
336-854-7874

Randleman
3120 Randleman Rd. Greensboro, NC 27406
336-854-7874

Greensboro Sportsplex
2400 16th St. Greensboro, NC 27405
336-854-7874

Downtown Winston-Salem
400 W. 4th St., Suites 100 & 200, Winston-Salem, NC 27101
336-788-7874

Burlington
2352, 2354 & 2356 South Church St., Burlington, NC 27215
336-226-7874

Don’t forget that in addition to this 3-month FREE membership, EVERY newsletter subscriber is eligible to receive a FREE 30-day membership. All you have to do is email us here anytime between now and 5 AM January 28 to say you are interested. We will check to be sure you are a subscriber, and then we'll send you back an email confirming your eligibility for the FREE 30-day membership. You can then take that confirmation email from TriadSmartyPants into any of the seven Triad locations to redeem.

Just click on this link to be entered into this Smarty Give-Away designed exclusively for our loyal newsletter subscribers. The winner will be notified on January 29.

Happy Exercising!


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Sunday, January 18, 2009

TV Ratings for Kids


Previously written by Jen B, Co-founding Mommy, CharlotteSmartyPants

I found a new website that I just LOVE. It is called Common Sense Media and it “rates” TV, Movies and websites for kids & parents. Such as, if a movie is rated “G”, how do you know if it is OK for a 3-year-old or a 7-year-old? Common Sense Media tells you what ages are appropriate and tells you WHY and gives you ideas about topics to discuss that happened in the movie or show. This site is chock full of amazing info, we’ll help you sift through it.

Before I had a child I am sure I probably made fun of parents who got hung up on stuff like this. But now, I see what they show in so-called cartoons and I worry about what sort of message they are sending. I had never realized how “violent” Looney Toons are! I am embarrassed that I gave that DVD as a gift to a 2-year-old before Claire was born! I am just way more tuned into this now and very happy this website is out there. Not that we want Claire (age 2 1/2) to watch much TV, but when we do we would like it be be appropriate and educational (she has not learned the word "stupid" yet and I want to keep it that way). I remember that when she was 1 1/2I was ready to consider letting her watch some shows but I had no idea which ones were good. This site has tons of info, so I have picked out a few pages that might be interesting. I have also listed a few popular kids shows and the ratings that Common Sense Media gives them. I will be doing this for movies and books in future posts. They also have some good lists of "Best Bets" for Kids Ages 2-4, Ages 5-7, and Tweens ages 8-10.

Here are a few ratings of popular shows. The web site details the ratings for each show and has much more info on the pros and cons of each show.

Dora The Explorer - Rated 3+
This is Claire's #1 all-time favorite right now. We read the books and on special days she gets to watch one episode. I like it because I feel that it has a pretty good message. She did get scared that Swiper was in her room one week and she does not like the one episode with the witch but she got past it and otherwise she loves it. She pretends she has a backpack just like Dora and tells me "Vamanos" all the time.

Little Bear - Rated 3+

Go Diego Go - Rated 3+

Blue's Clues - Rated 3+

The Wiggles - Rated 3+

Super Why - Rated 3+

Sesame Street - Rated 3+

Curious George - Rated 3+

Oswold - Rated 3+

Thomas The Tank Engine - Rated 3+

Danger Rangers - Rated 4+

Hannah Montana - Rated 8+

The Suite Life of Zach & Cody - Rated 8+

This is just a sampling of the reviews and ratings, to find any show go to the website.

What shows do you like for your kids? How much TV are your kids allowed to watch? And how old were they when they started?!

Don't forget about our Smarty Give-Away to The Rush Fitness Complex. Between now and 5 AM on January 28, all TriadSmartyPants' newsletter subscribers can email us here to say you are interested in the FREE 30-day membership. We will check to be sure you are a subscriber, and then we'll send you back an email confirming your eligibility for the FREE 30-day membership. You can then take that confirmation email from TriadSmartyPants into any of the seven Triad locations to redeem. Then tomorrow, newsletter subscribers have the additional opportunity to win a FREE 3-month membership to the RUSH. Don't forget to check tomorrow's post!


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Saturday, January 17, 2009

Smarty Mom – Jenna Guldberg


By Guest Blogger, Rachel H

I am thrilled to introduce Jenna Guldberg as this week’s Smarty Mom. I met Jenna about 5 years ago when I decided to bring my 6 month old son to a group called Power Hour at Star of Bethlehem church. This was a social group for moms and children that Jenna was running at the time. We sang, danced, did crafts, and got to know other moms and kids. Jenna was such a warm, welcoming person, and was great with the children. Jenna still helps with Power Hour at the church where her husband, Fred is a minister. She also helps him with his ministry. She has five absolutely beautiful children. Nate (9), Lauren (7), Luke (6) and twins Addy & Emmy (2) are full of life, well-mannered, and are a joy to be around.

The Guldbergs have lived in the Triad area for six years now, after moving here from Milwaukee, WI. Jenna is a stay-at-home mom and also home schools her children. On top of all her mommy obligations, she has also taken time for herself and decided to begin running. She is training for her first race this year.

So let’s get Smarty with Jenna.

Tell us more about Power Hour. Is it open to new members?
Power Hour is basically an hour long class for moms and kids to play together, sing songs, read stories, make crafts and hear a Bible story. It’s a ministry of our church to share God’s word with children and is free for anyone who would like to attend. While I don’t run the program anymore, my good friend Ronda has taken it over and is absolutely wonderful. It’s so fun to take my own girls and see how much they love playing with the other children, not to mention the enjoyment I get from visiting with other mommies! Classes are Tuesday and Wednesday mornings at 10:00 and you can call 794-0260 for more information.

You helped start a preschool at Star of Bethlehem. Tell us more about it.
Our preschool started out as a half-day program in the fall of 2007, but quickly changed to a licensed, full-day program as we got more and more calls looking for full-time childcare. The mornings are very structured with lots of learning activities, while the afternoons are a bit more laid back with naptime and play. I can’t rave enough about our wonderful teachers. Every once in awhile I have the privilege to substitute teach, and I love it!

How do you organize your day in order to home-school children of four different ages?
I truly could not do it without my husband’s help! We try to start our schooling at 9:00 am and usually the twins go downstairs and play while my husband works downstairs. We work hard to get the heavy learning out of the way by lunchtime and then have a little playtime. The twins take their nap at 1:30 and usually the older kids read, do their projects, etc. during that time. We sometimes joke that we miss being the typical relaxing couple at night. Once our children are in bed, we usually separate and get caught up on our own things…laundry, grocery shopping, school planning, and so on. It’s a sacrifice, but we know our family benefits from it in the long run.

What is your best Smarty Tip for moms with three or more kids?
Be flexible! When I think back to how I used to freak out when Nate was a toddler and would get dirty – YIKES!!! I think by the time you have your third child, too many of the everyday mishaps are out of your control and you can either fight against that and be miserable, or go with it and be happier in the long run.

What is your favorite family activity?
We love to have family game night. Even if it’s just a quick game of Go Fish, it ends our day on a positive note and sends the kids to bed with a smile.

What is your favorite mommy time activity?
I love to catch up with friends, especially when the kids are not around begging for snacks. Usually we meet at Panera and just sit and visit and enjoy the quiet atmosphere. Not exactly a wild night, but it rejuvenates me for getting back to the crazy family life!

What is the funniest thing your kids have ever said to you?
The summer I was pregnant with the twins, we were visiting my family in Milwaukee. My dad had been outside mowing the grass and was quite hot when he came into the house. As he walked to the sink for a glass of water, he pulled his shirt over his head. Lauren’s eyes got wide as saucers and she asked in disbelief, “Is Papa going to have a baby too?!?!?”

Favorite date place in the Triad?
We love going to Cities and the Macaroni Grill.

Favorite place to eat out with the family?
Jason’s Deli – yummy, healthy food for everyone, and free ice cream for dessert!

Favorite place to get a good deal on kids clothes?
Honestly, I probably find my best deals at Kohl’s. However, I have many shopper savvy moms who tip me off to anyone having a good sale!

What’s the Smartiest way you save money?
I don’t usually buy anything unless it’s on sale. Because I love to shop, I have a pretty good knowledge of what’s a good price for something. Even when I find something l love, I’ll watch it until it does go on sale before I buy it.

Favorite park?
Dan Nicholas Park in Salisbury – well worth the drive for a cheap day of fun!

Favorite birthday party venue?
Well, between my five kids, we’ve pretty much done everything imaginable for birthday parties. My favorite is probably at home – even though it’s way more work for me, the kids seem to have the most fun in their own environment.

Mini-van or SUV?
Mini-van…between soccer, dance, violin, piano and everywhere else we drive, I need the good gas mileage!

I could not live without…sweet tea. It’s my one addiction!!!

What do you like best about raising a family in the Triad?
We absolutely love that the Triad has a small town atmosphere, but any big city attraction you could want. When we first moved here I was convinced that I would never like living in the south, but now we love our home and can’t imagine living anywhere else!

Thanks, Jenna for all your Smarty answers!

Do you know a mom who goes above and beyond the call of duty for others, someone who does incredible work for her family and a charitable organization, runs a company and a marathon, or is just simply living the daily grit of motherhood?! Then email me here with your “Smarty Momination”!


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Friday, January 16, 2009

Sales We Spotted This Week!


By Guest Blogger, Rachel H

OK, Smarty Moms, this posting is going to be a weekly or bi-weekly blog if we can work as a community to alert each other of sales in the Triad when we spot them! We need your help to comment and add any sales you have spotted this week. Be sure to call any of the following stores before you make a special trip just in case the sale has ended by the time you get there!

High Point
Talbots @ Oak Hollow Village – just took major mark-downs this Wednesday morning. Some items are percentages off already reduced prices.
Finish Line @ Oak Hollow Mall - $10 off any $60 purchase.

Greensboro
Swoozies @ Friendly Center – 70% off sale – includes all holiday items and select additional items from around the store.
Limited Too @ Friendly and Four Seasons Mall – Semi-annual clearance event –Buy one get one 50% off.
Luxury Nails & Spa @ Friendly Center – New Years Savings - $5 off all spa services.

I also have to mention that I just saw the news that Anthropologie is adding a store in Friendly Center! I love this store for gift items and unique clothing for women. The one in Charlotte has a sale room that is always great!

Winston-Salem
Gazoodles – 50% off all holiday clothes, 30% off all winter apparel.
Pink Mink on Reynolda – 50% off sale.
Sweeties on Reynolda – Moving Sale.
Limited Too @ Hanes Mall - Semi-annual clearance event – Buy one get one 50%off.

What have we forgotten? Please add your sales scoop below!


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Thursday, January 15, 2009

First Smarty Give-Away for the Triad!


We are SO excited to announce the first (of many!) give-aways from TriadSmartyPants. The Rush Fitness Complex is graciously giving a FREE 30-day membership to ALL loyal TriadSmartyPants' newsletter subscribers at any one of its SEVEN Triad locations. This is huge! And on top of that, one lucky newsletter subscriber will have the chance to win an additional THREE MONTH MEMBERSHIP for FREE!

But you HAVE to be a newsletter subscriber - and all signed up by 5 AM January 28 to receive either offer. Luckily, it's super easy to do and you have 14 days to get signed up AND tell all your friends (including those in Greensboro, High Point and other Triad locations) to get signed up too!

On Monday, January 19 TriadSmartyPants will run a post about all the great benefits a Rush membership provides (yes, they have daycare), and we will include a short survey for you to complete in order to qualify for the additional FREE 3-month membership. Then on Thursday, January 29 we will announce that lucky winner.

In the meantime, newsletter subscribers can email us here anytime between now and 5 AM January 28 to say you are interested in the FREE 30-day membership. We will check to be sure you are a subscriber, and then we'll send you back an email confirming your eligibility for the FREE 30-day membership. You can then take that confirmation email from TriadSmartyPants into any of the seven Triad locations to redeem.

PLEASE NOTE: If you are not a subscriber (or if you thought you signed up but have not received any newsletters), you need to know that the sign-up process is two-step. First, you enter your email address in the box on TriadSmartyPants. Then you need to check your email for a confirmation. Lots of times these email confirmations have ended up in the TRASH emailboxes - so be sure to check there. Then, you need to click on the hyperlink in your confirmation email (or paste it in a browser) in order to complete your registration.

If you have any questions about your subscription or eligibily, email us here.

Be sure to watch for Monday's post in order to qualify for the FREE 3-month membership too!

See, we told you there was benefit to being a loyal newsletter subscriber! How cool is this? And we have more of these exclusive give-aways to come. So go get signed up if you aren't already, and by all means, tell all your friends to sign up for a newsletter too!


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Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Smarty Scoop for Weekend Events




By Katie M

It’s finally starting to feel like winter, and thankfully there's lots to do indoors this weekend! If we forgot to mention any great events, leave a comment below. And, if you have an event you want featured, feel free to email me here with your info, and we’ll get it posted.

Don’t forget that our own Smarty Mom Robin Fulk is hosting trunk shows for Ragsland and Gigi and Jack beginning tomorrow. If you would like to attend these parties, email Robin here for more information. Below are the days and times of the shows:

Ragsland – Saturday, Jan. 17 from 2 to 7 pm

Gigi and Jack – Thursday, Jan. 15 from 3 – 7 pm; Friday, Jan. 16 from 9 am to 4 pm; Sunday, Jan. 18 from 1 pm – 5 pm; or by appointment.

Here are some other great events happening around the Triad. Have a great weekend, everyone!

Max and Ruby
Friday, Jan. 16 Noon and 7 pm; Saturday at 11 am
The Arts Council Theatre, 610 Coliseum Drive, W-S
Big sisters have big responsibilities, especially when the little brother is a big trouble-maker! Join in the fun as TheatreworksUSA presents "Max and Ruby," a lovable new musical full of fun and sibling revelry based on the top-rated Nickelodeon television show inspired by Rosemary Wells' bunny siblings, Max and Ruby. Recommended for Pre-K-3rd graders. $8/$12 reserved (Saturday and evening shows only).

Piedmont Fire Expo
Friday, Jan. 16 from 10 am to 6 pm, and Saturday, Jan. 17 from 8 am to 5 pm
LJVM Coliseum, W-S
What child doesn’t get excited seeing bright red fire engines, sirens screaming, whizzing down the street? Or hope to become a firefighter when he or she grows up? On Friday and Saturday at Joel Coliseum, youngsters and their families will get a chance to experience first-hand the exciting world of firefighting and rescue at the Piedmont Fire Expo, the annual fundraiser of the Forsyth County Fire and Rescue Association. Admission is $5 for adults, and free for children 12 and under.

Other events at the January Expo scheduled to be included are hands-on fire-extinguisher safety stations, a fire safety house that children can crawl through and learn very important safety tips, photo opportunities with Sparky the Dog, Air Care helicopter, kid giveaways and many more hands on activities for the entire family.

LPG Live Fire Training
Friday 1PM - 4PM
Saturday 9AM - 12PM, 1PM - 4PM

School Bus Extrication
Saturday 9AM - 12PM, 1PM - 4PM

Family Yoga
Friday, Jan. 16 at 6 pm
Sunrise Yoga Studio, 6000 Meadowbrook Mall, Suite 1, Clemmons
Bring your kids (any age) for a fun family outing of yoga poses, breathing techniques, and relaxation together. There is a cost – click on link above for more details.

Children’s Museum Day @ Barnes & Nobles
Saturday, Jan. 17
Barnes & Nobles at Friendly Shopping Center, GSO
Mark you calendars. If you need to do some book shopping...do it on Jan 17th. Come anytime that day to help out the Children's Museum...but, Big Bang Boom will be performing in the store at about 2 pm.

Adoption Expo
Saturday, Jan. 17 from 8 am to 12:30 pm
Blaise Baptist Church, Mocksville
Adoption Expo will feature family testimonies, breakout sessions and music by adoption advocate and contemporary Christian singer, Meredith Andrews. The expo will provide resources from over two dozen agencies (most will have representatives available on site). The event will inspire and inform the public about opportunities for foster care, domestic and international adoption. Free! Call 751-3639 from more information.

Martin Luther King, Jr. Holiday Parade
Saturday, Jan. 17 at 3 pm
Russell Street, Downtown High Point
Parade honoring Martin Luther King's birthday. Begins at Russell St. and ends at Richardson St.
Call 434-4000 for more information.

Recycling in Greensboro
Saturday, Jan. 17 from 10 – 11 am
Frank Sharpe Jr.Wildlife Education Center, 5834 Bur-Mil Club Road, GSO
This class covers the importance of recycling, what happens to the recyclable materials when they leave the recycling center, and what Greensboro’s recycling program looks like. For ages 6 and up. Free!

WS/FCS Elementary Art Exhibition and Reception
Sunday, Jan. 18 at 3 pm
Salem Fine Arts Center, Salem College, W-S
This exhibition showcases works by selected elementary art students in the Winston-Salem Forsyth County school system. On exhibit January 7 - January 30. Call 721-2636 for more information.


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Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Library is Lots of Fun!


By Katie M

Ask me what the best kept secret is for any mom, and I’ll say it’s the library. We have been going to the library for play time and free events ever since my daughter was barely able, or willing, to sit still for story time. But I still brought her to story time – every week – and then had to entertain her in the car on the way home (sometimes even reaching behind me to tickle her feet) so she wouldn’t fall asleep and could make it to nap time. Yep, I went through this every week, but it was well worth it. And it’s all FREE!

Our new ritual as a family is to go to the library about once a week and gather books for bedtime readings. We make it a big event and our kids get a huge kick out of it. And the best part is that Mom and Dad have new books to read each night versus the usual over-read books on the shelves.

And it’s not all about books either. Most branches have toys for children too. The Central Library in downtown Winston-Salem dedicates half a floor to the children section, which includes books (obviously); movies; an auditorium for movie viewing; a play area with puzzles, Lego’s, and other games; a secret hide-away area for kids to crawl in and read; computers; a separate room for Story Time; and lots of other stuff that I probably don’t even know about!

Story time is available for children ages 18-months to three years at any branch of the Forsyth County Public Libraries. Parents get to meet other parents, and the children get to hear a story plus participate in activities, puzzles, crafts, and participate in sing-alongs.

Times and days are subject to change (and they do – be aware), but below is the schedule of special events children at Central Library in Winston-Salem:
Book Babies – Mondays at 10 am
Toddler Story time – Tuesdays at 11 am
Preschool Films – Wednesdays at 10 am
Preschool Story time – Wednesdays at 11 am
Any Age Story time – Thursdays at 11 am
Family Story time – Saturdays at 11 am
Monthly Craft Specials – One afternoon a month
Play Music Mondays – Mondays at 10:30 am

For more information on these programs at the Central Library in Winston-Salem, and to confirm days and times, you can call them directly at 703-BOOK (2665).

In Greensboro, the Kathleen Clay Edwards Family Branch Library (1420 Price Park Road, Greensboro) also offers free story times. Their schedule is as follows:
- Story time for Preschoolers: Tuesdays (1:30 pm)
- Story time for Preschoolers & Toddlers: Tuesdays (9:30, 10:30 and 11:30 am), Wednesdays (9:30, 10:30 and 11:30 am)
- Program for School ages: Wednesdays (3:30 pm)

To confirm the days and times above, you can reach the Kathleen Clay Edwards branch by calling 373-2923.

The computers (at the Central Library in Winston-Salem) are available for children ages 18 months to 13 years and feature educational software and four Internet work stations with a word processing station. To use the computers, sign up with the librarian or reserve computer time up to one day in advance.

Another great program is Books Alive! at the Lewisville Library Branch. Stories come alive the last Saturday of each month as kids learn how to act out their favorite books. Every session starts at 10:30 am with a two-minute “actor’s warm up” followed by reading the book of the month. Children in Kindergarten through 3rd grade are welcome. The last Books Alive! program noted on the schedule (there may be more, however) is January 31, and they will feature Snowman Surprise.

To learn more about other library branches in Forsyth County, click here. For Greensboro area libraries, click here. And for the High Point Public Library, click here.

What have I forgot to mention? I’m sure there are a million other reasons to visit your public library. And I'm sure there are branches in the Triad that are doing cool things that are not mentioned above. If you have additional library scoop, please add to the comments below!


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Monday, January 12, 2009

Online Computer Games for Kids


By Guest Blogger, Rachel H

Over the past few years, I have found the computer to be a wonderful tool in helping my children learn and develop many new skills. It is amazing how quickly they “catch on” to games. Many websites are so kid friendly, that once you log on and get your child started, even the youngest child can navigate through the website alone and play numerous games on their own.

I have tagged a few of these websites and added them to my “Favorites Box” online. Now my children can easily click on the website of their choice and being playing without help. One warning – it is extremely difficult to get them OFF the computer once they start! I usually use computer time as a reward and I also make sure to set a timer. The kids know that when the timer goes off, computer time is over, even if they were in the middle of a game.

I would love to share with you some of our favorite websites for kids and invite you to add a comment below to add any sites that you and your children enjoy.

http://www.sesamestreet.com/
This website is perfect for children who are just learning to use the computer. My son and daughter both loved Elmo’s ABC game when they two years old, or maybe even younger. It is a game where the child pushes any letter or number on the keyboard and Elmo will say the letter and a word that begins with that letter. It is very cute and simple. Even the youngest children can sit on their parents’ laps and play this one. There are many additional games on this website that teach different skills such as matching, rhyming, spelling, reading, letter recognition, shapes, weather, etc.

http://www.noggin.com/
This is also a great website for younger children. It includes games centered around the television shows featured on the Noggin network. Kids can also watch music videos by Laurie Berkner and other children’s bands. They can also make their own music online.

http://www.funbrain.com/
We just tried this website last week. My five-year-old claims that the Poptropica game on here is “Super Cool” and lots of fun. This website also has games such as Tic Tac Toe , Hangman, and Madlibs, as well as number and letter games.

http://www.gsn.com/
This website is based off the Game Show Network. It is definitely for older kids. They can play Jeopardy, Wheel of Fortune, and a great word game called Lingo. I must admit I like this one for myself, too!

http://www.playhousedisney.com/
This not only has interactive games for the kids, but many crafts and activities to do at home. It has many different matching games, puzzles, etc. From what I have seen, this one does not seem to have as many letter, word or number games, but is still lots of fun and can develop other skills!

http://www.pbskids.com/
Great for a variety of all ages. It has games centered around PBS shows, including “Between the Lions” and “WordWorld” which are great for emerging readers. It also has coloring, videos and music. Games such as “Play with Caillou” are great for preschoolers.

http://www.playkidsgames.com/
This website focuses on many different skills such as matching, multiplication and addition facts, putting words in alphabetical order, etc. The downfall is that the technology on this website does not seem as advanced, so the games are a bit slower-paced.

http://www.nickjr.com/ and http://www.cartoonnetwork.com/
I must admit that these two are my least favorite, simply because the games are more like video games without as many learning tools for the kids. But they are both good websites just for fun, and are of course the kids love them!


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Sunday, January 11, 2009

Update on New Safety Rules for Selling Children’s Products

Just in from the CPSC (Consumer Product Safety Commission) and it's good news for the consignment business, thrift stores and businesses led by some of our own Smarty Moms! You may have heard about the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act (CPSIA) and our recent blog on this topic.

Bottom line from Thursday's press release: The new law requires that domestic manufacturers and importers certify that children's products made after February 10 meet all the new safety standards and the lead ban. Sellers of used children's products, such as thrift stores and consignment stores, are not required to certify that those products meet the new lead limits, phthalates standard or new toy standards.

Game on consignors, consignment sales, eBay, and anyone else selling children's clothes, toys or products! Just remember to be smart about buying used stuff - if in doubt, don't buy it!


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To Snip or Not to Snip...


By Tracy S, VP of Mommyhood and Expert Working Mom, CharlotteSmartyPants

Now there's a question! When my husband I got married, we weren't really sure if we even wanted to have babies let alone how many. Now, two beautiful children later ... one boy, one girl ... we feel very blessed and certain that our family is complete. Throw in a fairly rough recent pregnancy on top of a mid-to-late-30's body, and I feel pretty confident that I will not have that longing for a third baby down the road.

So now the question becomes, what do we do to make sure we don't have any little surprise blessings in the future? I've been on the pill pretty much my entire married life so it only seemed natural to accept that prescription from my doctor at my post-pregnancy follow up appointment and run right into the nearest pharmacy. But it got me thinking ... I am terrible at remembering to do anything daily. I even had to buy one of those "days of the week" pill boxes to remember to take my prenatal vitamins regularly!! So am I chancing fate that I may forget one day to take that tiny little BC pill?? Is it time to do something ..... permanent? My husband, Matt, and I haven't even broached that subject yet and I'm not sure I'm ready to. Again, don't get me wrong, we both are certain that we don't want any more kids, but there's just something about the permanence of it that has me so hesitant.

I know the decision of when and what we do is a very personal one and something Matt and I will figure out when the time is right. But it would be great to hear stories of how you took the plunge and decided if and when to do something permanent.


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Saturday, January 10, 2009

Smarty Alert: Trunk Shows Coming to Town!


Attention Smarty and Savvy Moms: One of our own Smarty Moms will be hosting Rags Land and Gigi and Jack Trunk Shows next week. Watch this site for more information in the next few days on how you can order (you can only order Gigi and Jack items through a representative).

If you are also hosting a trunk show or other product parties, and can share information for other Smarty Moms to attend or order items, email us here and we'll spread the word. Or leave a comment below!


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Smarty Mom: Ellen Robinson


By Guest Blogger Gayle S

Welcome to another great Saturday, Smarty Moms!! Today's Smarty Mom, Ellen Robinson, is currently at Disney World preparing to run her first marathon on Sunday (tomorrow!!!). She will wake at 2:45 am, be on the monorail at 4 am, and running at 6am. Ellen is a very disciplined, organized, and determined woman!!

Ellen and I met in 2005 as she was finishing her last year as a pediatric resident. She and I lived down the street from each other. At the time, Ellen ran a few times a week but wouldn't run with me since she describes herself as a "waddler" and not a runner. She has trained very hard for the past six months and has not missed a single scheduled training run. Ellen has trained alone (very difficult!!) and will run alone in the marathon (besides the 30,000 other people in it).

Beyond running, Ellen enjoys and excels as a pediatrician at Forsyth Pediatrics-Westgate office two days a week. She is a ful- time mom and wife every other minute of her week. Ellen has been married to Nic, a colorectal surgeon, for 8 1/2 years. They have two smart and beautiful children, Reese (4) and Luke (almost 2). Ellen is a very patient, caring, and intuitive mother who sets high standards and expectations for her kids. They are some of the most polite kids I know! Ellen is very supportive of Nic and his very busy schedule of caring for patients.

Ellen is also one of the most generous and thoughtful people I have met. She makes the time to call to ask about special events in a person's life and helps the underprivileged in many ways. She is a supportive and great friend to all who know her.

Let’s get Smarty with Ellen.

How do you balance your work and home life?
I work for a practice which allows me to job-share so I truly have a part time schedule. We are blessed with an amazing babysitter who takes incredible care of our children while we are at work. I make meals in advance which helps during the evening rush. We do all of the grocery shopping on one day which helps limit time running to and from the store. And we try to laugh a lot, especially when things get a little rough around 6:30pm.

What Smarty tips do you have for moms/dads in your position?
Stay organized.

Favorite place to get a good deal on kids clothes?
I LOVE shopping at Target. They have great play clothes.

What is your favorite family activity?
As a family, we love playing at parks especially the playground at Whitaker Elementary (in W-S).

Favorite “Mommy-time” activity?
I enjoy running, especially when I can do it without the Baby Jogger.

Best place to eat lunch with the kids?
At home….by lunch time our crew is nearing meltdown.

Favorite place to eat dinner out with the kids?
We are big fans of The Loop. It is super famil- friendly and we can always find something the kids will eat.

Funniest thing your kid(s) has ever said?
About a year ago, I had a minor case of pink eye....kind of an occupational hazard along with the 15 billion other illnesses I get a year. One night after I started the eye drops, I was giving Reese a bath and she started giggling. When I asked her what was so funny she said, "Mommy's contacts.” When I asked her to clarify exactly why Mommy's contacts were funny she said, "Because I dropped them in the potty last week." I guess that’s why I got pink eye!

Favorite park in the Triad?
Whitaker Elementary (in W-S)

Mini-van or SUV?
Mini-van

Best thing about raising a family in the Triad?
It’s large enough to have plenty to do, but small enough to retain a small town charm.

Best kept secret in the Triad?
The Children’s Museum at Old Salem. It’s not crowed and has a great play structure to help wear pre-schoolers out.

Best birthday party you have attended?
A party at the Gateway YWCA. IT has a great zero-entry pool and the kids loved it!

I could not live without my... friends.

I wish someone had told me sooner about... the home shoppers at Harris Teeter. For $5, they prepare your grocery order and load it into the car. It’s a tremendous time and energy saver.

Thanks, Ellen for your Smarty answers! And we'll all be thinking of you - and cheering for you - as you run your first marathon! You go, Smarty Mom!

Do you know a mom who goes above and beyond the call of duty for others, someone who does incredible work for her family and a charitable organization, runs a company and a marathon, or is just simply living the daily grit of motherhood?! Then send along your “Smarty Momination” to triadsmartypants@gmail.com for a future Smarty Mom profile!


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Friday, January 9, 2009

Sociale Gourmet & the Importance of Family Mealtime


By Guest Blogger Rachel H

I mentioned in my Smarty Mom profile that I feel family dinner time is very important. My family tries to sit down for dinner together as much as possible. If that means eating very early, or rather late, it is worth it because we get to be together without any distractions. We can focus on each other and actually have discussions about our day!

Donna Harris, is the owner of Sociale Gourmet® in Winston-Salem. She was kind enough to share some facts about family mealtime with us. Stores like Social Gourmet can help you achieve the goal of a relaxing family dinnertime without the stress. We hope the information below will be beneficial to you and your family.

And at the end of this blog, share your thoughts about family mealtimes, and how you’re able to get everyone around the table.

Facts about Mealtime
Experts say that taking time to enjoy meals together helps families reconnect. Sociale Gourmet® exists to make it easier for families to sit down at the table together for dinner. Several national surveys have concluded that the daily ritual of dining together as a family is the most important way to strengthen family ties.

Benefits of Family Dinner Time
- A survey of National Merit Scholars from the past 20 years, discovered that one thing nearly all of these students had in common was that they ate a meal together with their family at least three times a week.
- Children who sit down to meals with their family seven or more times a week tend to have higher grade point averages and were generally more well-adjusted. These children are also less likely to smoke cigarettes or marijuana or use alcohol.
- Children whose families usually sit down to a home-cooked meal at the table are less likely to be overweight than those who eat out or bring food in.
More meal time at home is the single strongest predictor of better achievement scores and fewer behavioral problems. Meal time is far more powerful than time spent in school, studying, church, playing sports, and art activities.

Stress Associated With Traditional Dinner Preparation
- More than 70% of parents experience some sort of stress associated with dinnertime.
- Nearly eight out of 10 parents claim their dinnertime stress comes from the actual meal itself. Parents cite key challenges:
- Deciding what to make (47 percent)
- Preparing and cooking the meal (23 percent)
- Worrying about having the right ingredients (8 percent)

With that said, how can you get the benefits of Mealtime with the family without adding additional stress to your life?

Sociale Gourmet® can help. It's a Meal Assembly store. This means they can do all the shopping, chopping, mixing and prepping. All you do is cook it and enjoy your time with the family.

Sound expensive? Not compared to eating out or your grocery bill. It is hard to imagine that having restaurant quality meals in your freezer can cost 35% less than you would spend at the grocery store to buy the ingredients.

You can visit us Sociale Gourmet® at 380 Knollwood St, in Winston-Salem, or go online, or call them at 336-837-0661.


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Thursday, January 8, 2009

The Circus is Coming!



By Katie M

Book your tickets now because the Greatest Show on Earth is coming to the Triad! Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey’s latest performance of Zing Zang Zoom will be at the Greensboro Coliseum starting Wednesday, February 11, and I’m so excited I am literally doing flips in my kitchen.

We took our kids last year when my daughter was three and my son was one. It was actually my son’s birthday celebration, but in all honesty, I think my husband and I had the most fun. To my surprise my daughter seemed more interested in the hotdogs and popcorn and what she’d be eating next, while my son, who I didn’t think would pay any attention, was mesmerized by the lights and most of the performances. Go figure.

The show is offering special opening night ticket prices for just $11, plus surcharges, handling and facility fees (of course). And you can arrive one hour early for the All Access Pre-Show featuring Clown College where you can be your own class clown, meet the animals, and see an elephant paint – all free with your ticket.

There are also other special offers for Baby’s First Circus, Preferred Customers, Military Savings, and Free Commemorative Certificates. All this is found on Ringling Bros’ web site at www.ringling.com.

Show dates and times are as follows:
Wed, Feb 11 at 7:30PM
Thu, Feb 12 at 10:30AM and 7:30PM
Fri, Feb 13 at 7:30PM
Sat, Feb 14 at 11:00AM, 3:00PM, and 7:00PM
Sun, Feb 15 at 1:00PM and 5:00PM

Tickets are on sale now and range from $14 to $80. You can go online to purchase your tickets at either www.ringling.com (and get your tickets via email through TicketFast) or at www.greensborocoliseum.com, or by calling 336-852-1100.

Hurry, Smarty Moms. I’m sure tickets won’t last!


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Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Smarty Scoop on Weekend Events



By Katie M

Happy Smarty Wednesday! With the holidays behind us, either you are ready to get back to your normal life or you're too buried among toys and other gifts to get out of the house. Here's hoping you've been able to find room for all your new loot and can check out some of the events happening around the Triad (especially you animal lovers).

As always, there's a lot going on at the Children's Museums both in Winston-Salem and in Greensboro, as well as at SciWorks in Winston-Salem, the Piedmont Environmental Center in North High Point, and the Natural Science Center in Greensboro. You can click on the links to go straight to their event pages. Below are some more Smarty events worth your time.

Did we forget something? Please add your event information in the comment section below!

Music Academy of North Carolina
January 7 – 16
The Music Academy of North Carolina will be offering a variety of free Muskigarten Early Childhood classes in Greensboro in the coming weeks. These demo classes will give you and your child an opportunity to sing, dance and learn all the wonderful benefits of music education! The free demo class schedule is below. Please register for your FREE demo class by emailing the teacher directly.

Family Music for Babies
Tuesday, January 13th, 11:15-11:45 AM
Miss Susannah
susannahsteele@yahoo.com

Family Music for Toddlers
Thursday, January 8th, 10:00-10:30 AM
Miss Kellie
kburgess@musicacademync.org
Tuesday, January 13th, 10:30-11:00 AM
Miss Susannah
susannahsteele@yahoo.com
Friday, January 16th, 9:30-10:00 AM
Miss Kellie
kburgess@musicacademync.org

Music Makers / Keyboard: 6 years to 9 years
Wednesday, January 7th, 1:30-2:30 PM
Miss Carol
carolsoter@gmail.com

Happy Hills Animal Foundation Adoption Fair
Saturday, Jan. 10 from 1 pm to 4 pm.
Petsmart, Lawndale Drive, Greensboro

Annual Winter Cat Fanciers’ Association All-Breed Cat Show
Saturday, Jan. 10 and Sunday, Jan. 11 from 10 am to 4 pm
Radisson Hotel, Main Street, High Point
This show features over 200 cats from a wide variety of breeds, allowing the curious cat lover to see those exquisite and unusual cats that they may have only been able to read about before. They may even be able to find that perfect companion of their own. Vendors will have grooming aids, toys, and furniture for the cat of the house and feline-themed items for cat lovers.
Tickets: Admission is $6 adults, $5 seniors, and $4 children.


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Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Smarty Alert: Have You Heard?





Attention Mompreneurs, Green Moms, Savvy Moms, and all you Smarty Moms, have you heard about the new safety rules for childrens' clothing and toys?

The Consumer Products Safety Improvement Act (CPSIA) is scheduled to take effect February 10th, and was passed by Congress last year in response to widespread recalls of products that posed a threat to children, including toys made with lead or lead-based paint. Here's the deal:

From the LA Times on 1/2/09, "Barring a reprieve, regulations set to take effect next month [Feb. 10] could force thousands of clothing retailers and thrift stores to throw away trunkloads of children's clothing. This new law is aimed at keeping lead-filled merchandise away from children. It mandates that all products sold for those age 12 and under (including clothing) be tested for lead and phthalates. Those that haven't been tested will be deemed hazardous, regardless of whether they actually contain lead."

CharlotteSmartyPants ran a blog about this new law that will potentially harm a lot of businesses including Goodwill, trunk lines, local consignment sales, mompreneurs, eBay,Craig's List, etc. - this is HUGE! Small businesses in particular will not be able to afford the high cost to test their products. However, we absolutely need to have laws in place to protect our children and what they are exposed to. Yet, this seems to go against the green movement.

Check out CSP's blog, particularly the comments from other Smarty Moms.

What do you think?


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Best Price On Pampers


Previously written by Jen B, Co-founding Mommy, CharlotteSmartyPants

(Readers Note: This blog was written almost one year ago, and while the prices may have changed by a few cents, the rankings probably haven't as Jen B mentions below.)

I have decided that you need a PhD to figure out who has the best price on Pampers. The diaper people and the retailers are smart - they package the diapers in different counts for each store so it's harder to price-shop. The only way to REALLY figure it out is to visit each store, write it all down and do a spread sheet. Well, I have done that and I will share it with you. (Photo from early 2007 when Claire was still in diapers).

My formula was to figure out the cost per diaper. I realize there are many different sizes of Pampers so I compared the price of Pampers Swaddlers in Size 2. I think we can assume that if a store "wins" in this size that their other sizes will also be competitive. I also only priced the largest package the store had - we all know that you need to buy in bulk to save money.

Now I realize that we are only talking a few cents per diaper here but this can equal hundreds of dollars per year. If you have 1 child who uses 7 diapers a day, and you can save 5 cents per diaper, then over a year you have saved $127. And if you have more than one child in diapers then the savings goes up. My last disclaimer is that all prices are subject to change, but directionally, I think you will find the rankings stay the same.

The Findings (cost per diaper for size 2 Pampers Swaddlers):
• Sam's Club: 16 cents (Note: this was for size 1-2)
• BJs: 19 cents
• Amazon.com : 19.5 cents (Free shipping)
• Babies R Us: 20 cents (in store and online)
• Target: 20.8 cents
• Wal-Mart: 22 cents
• Harris Teeter: 27 cents*
• CVS: 27 cents

So, the warehouse clubs are the best prices and if you do not belong to Sams or BJs, then your best bet is to buy online at Amazon.com . I have done this many times and found it to be awesome. You order, it's free shipping, and they deliver to your door, how much easier can it be? Babies R Us and Target & Wal-Mart are not too far behind. Wondering why Costco is not on the list? They do not sell Pampers.

Now, I do have a note about Harris Teeter. The day I did my "price shopping" they had a VIC special. I logged the regular price for this list since VIC only lasts a week but their special netted out to 16.6 cents per diaper which is a GREAT price. It's always worth walking down that aisle to check their specials. I recommend you buy a small calculator that you always keep in your purse (unless you are a math wizard), if the diapers come out to 20 cents (for size 2) or less I would pick some up.

I also have to talk about Pampers.com. Hopefully by now you have signed up for their coupons and e-mail. They send great coupons that will help you save additional dollars. Even if you are not a big coupon person, they are worth it at $1.50 a pop. [Note: After this was published a reader asked about Diapers.com; unfortunately they are not a great deal for Pampers Swaddlers, 23.6 cents per diaper for a size 1-2(not even a full 2). They do have free shipping over $50 but you do better elsewhere.

Where do you get your diapers? Have you found diapers even cheaper than this? Please share your Smarty finds!


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Monday, January 5, 2009

Child-friendly Coffee Shop


By Guest Blogger, Rachel H

I met a friend for coffee last week with all four of our children, and it was terrific! We sat with our tea and coffee and talked for an hour and a half with no interruptions! I know what you are thinking. “How in the world is that possible?” Well, there is a wonderful new coffee shop in Winston-Salem called Confluence, which I highly recommend all you coffee-drinkers with children check out sometime.

Confluence has a play room for kids with a glass wall. Parents can watch their kids while relaxing with friends. They also have two flat screened TV's, and computer access. They have tables and couches, and plenty of space if you wanted to meet a larger group of people. Confluence has bagels from The Bagel Station, juice boxes, ice cream, and other breakfast items.

Confluence is located off Highway 150 (Peters Creek Parkway) in Winston Salem. It is just a little further south of the new Wal-Mart that recently opened, so they are actually in Davidson County. They are open six days a week (Monday - Thursday from 7am-10 pm, & Friday-Saturday from 7am-11 pm).

Check out their website at to get more information. I hope you are able to take some time to stop by! The kids loved playing in the playroom, and my friend and I really enjoyed ourselves, too.


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Sunday, January 4, 2009

eBay for Mommies!


By Jen P, Chief Founding Mommy, CharlotteSmartyPants

eBay is one of my favorite new hobbies and is actually my main revenue source for my children's clothing. Ahhh, my secret is out! Every new season, I sell probably $1,000 worth of gear, clothing, toys, books, etc. between eBay and consignment sales. I figure with three children's worth of outgrown items that are usually in great condition, I might as well try to make some spending money. This gives me a little "play" money, if you will, since I am only an expense on our family's bottom line, i.e., I don't generate much income!

So think of eBay as your dream return policy. No matter where or when you bought an item, you can turn around and sell it, sometimes for more than what you paid. The eBay marketplace is no longer a phenomenon; it's a hobby, a livelihood, and even a way of life for millions of eBay junkies around the world, myself included. I consider myself an eBay expert on selling children's clothing. For me, I save my really good stuff that I deem "eBay worthy" and sell the rest at consignment. All of your trunk lines and many boutique lines will fetch top dollar on eBay if you time it right.

For instance, right now, don't try to sell any winter clothes unless you want to give it away. Go ahead and box that stuff up and bring it out in August. Right now you want to focus on Easter and spring/summer stuff. If you have any super cute Easter outfits, list them now since Easter is early this year on March 23rd. But I would hold off for maybe 2-3 weeks on your good spring/summer stuff. Actually, now is the time that many people are starting to list their stuff, but not everyone is shopping. So shop on - you can probably get a pretty good deal. In fact, this time last year I won a Lilly Pulitzer dress for my 4-year-old NWT (that's eBay for new-with-tags!) for a bargain price of $26! Now that's a steal! However, in a few weeks, when I sell all my Lilly's, I will probably average $40 a dress on items that have been worn and loved by two little girls!

But remember, don't sell everything on eBay. Make sure there are no stains, rips, tears, etc. That goes for consignment too. Nobody wants to buy anything that is truly defective. Also, I don't waste my time on listing mainstream lines like Gap, Old Navy, Gymboree, etc. because there are thousands of these items listed already. To me, it has to be worth more than $10 for me to take the time to list it the right way. My favorite lines to sell on eBay are Bailey Boys, Beaux et Belles, Lilly Pulitzer, Hannah Andersson, Potato Saks, Rags Land, Chez Ami, Kelly's Kids and Jack Rogers (these are probably the only used shoes that I have sold unless they are in almost new condition or NIB, new in box).

So here are some good tips to know before you sell. Look before you list. The most effective way to get the most money is to know your market. Before you list your item, do a quick, title-only search on eBay for items similar to yours. Then, click on Completed items (under the Display heading) and sort the results by price (highest-priced first). Keep in mind that any given item on eBay is worth only what others are willing to pay for it, so ignore any listings that never received bids. Cut and paste descriptions that are like yours. You can modify it to your liking, but it's easier to get a start that way. Make sure you price your item to sell. When you're ready to list, set your Buy-It-Now price close to what you expect your item is worth. I don't recommend setting any reserve price for your listings. To me, this is annoying and I just scroll on past any items that have a reserve.

Make sure your title is accurately spelled and strategic. This is how your buyer searches for your item, so spelling counts. Also, it helps to include some intentional misspellings just to make sure you capture your future buyer. For example, if listing Rags Land items, make sure your title says "Rags Land Ragsland" since many people don't know the correct spelling. Don't lie in your description because you will get burned in your feedback, which is your ultimate survival tool as a successful eBayer. If there is a flaw in what you're selling, just say it upfront and include photos so the buyer can decide.

Make sure the payment and shipping details are included in your description and are easy to read to avoid disappointed customers or deadbeat eBayers. I recommend only accepting PayPal as a payment method. This protects you and your buyer - kind of eliminates the obscurity in the transaction.

Make sure you take a good photo with good lighting and pay extra for a few additional photos for different angles or close-ups, ie., you must include a close-up of any smocking if you're selling that type of item.

Last but not least, begin your auctions in the am, not at midnight or later when your customers are asleep - this will for sure get you a higher price. Although I have been known to set my alarm at 2am just to win an auction, it's certainly not my favorite thing to do.

Last spring, I sold probably 8 Lilly Pulitzer dresses that were in great condition. Guess what zip codes four of my buyers were in? Charlotte zips of 28209 & 28211! In all of the global eBay market, I could have hand-delivered half of my stash. So jump on the eBay wagon:-) And share your stories!


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Saturday, January 3, 2009

Smarty Mom: Kari Allison


By Guest Blogger Rachel H

Happy Smarty Saturday! I am thrilled to introduce to you Kari Allison as our Smarty Mom this week. I met Kari at her house last year when I attended her Children’s Boutique Clothing Re-sale Show. I was so impressed by her sale and all the organization that went into it. Not to mention the fact that I bought some really cute clothes! Kari and I have since discovered we have children at the same school, and many mutual friends. After living in Wilmington, Kari and her husband Cory have lived in the Triad since 1997. They have two daughters, Emma who is 9 and Camille, who is 6. Kari works part-time at her daughter’s former preschool, and she always seems to be organizing something. I am excited to share some of her Smarty wisdom with you all!

Tell us a little about the Art Camp you have organized.
I was not the sole organizer of the art camp. Myself and three other moms wanted to create some whimsical art. We tried to get together once a week to do this alone in preparation for selling at the Whimisical Women art show, but we always had to arrange for child care, and our kids wanted to do all of the projects anyway! So we picked a week in the summer that we were all available and made it an official art camp. Each mom was responsible for a day. This included an art project and snack for all nine of the kids. One day we made earrings and necklaces (for the boys) from recycled bottle caps ,and had a local artist come and show the kids how to make art out of airplane scrap metal. He brought some metal and the kids worked together to make it into a fish! We had homemade lemon ice cream that the kids helped prepare. At the end of that day, they had learned to turn trash into treasure, met a real artist and had a cooking lesson. It was a great experience. The kids all said it was their favorite camp ever. It was definitely my most memorable.

Please share with us how you started your Boutique Re-Sale, and are you looking for consignors at this time?
I am always looking for new consigners! My next sale will be last week of February or the first weekend in March depending on location. My sale was born out of need. I used to be a client at a great consignment shop in High Point. She sold her store and I was lost. There was no store in Winston-Salem strictly for children's consignment and I had a lot of clothes! I tried the local preschool clothing sales and noticed that some of my clothing sold well and some did not. The boutique style clothing did not move at the prices I had tagged. So I moved to E-bay. I tried selling my clothing and a friends clothing on E-bay, but we had a lot of clothing! Are you noticing a trend here? I jokingly said to my friend, between the two of us, we could have our own store. And so it was born. I invited a couple of other friends whom I knew to have an affinity for the same type items to bring their clothing for me to sell as well. This spring will be my 4th sale. I am planning on moving the upcoming sale to a larger location and would like to eventually have my own storefront. I believe strongly in making the most of what you have. Re-selling fine clothing is the best of both worlds for me. I can dress my children the way I love and know that when they have outgrown their beloved Hannas, someone else will get to enjoy it.

Our children live in such a disposable society, I hope that by holding this sale I am teaching my daughters the beauty of passing on, not discarding and the art of budgeting and living within your means. I hope that I am empowering other moms to do the same and making their homes a little less cluttered each season!

What is your best Smarty Tip for moms who are juggling many activities like yourself?
Coffee. Lots and lots of it! Seriously, a better tip would be to plan ahead. Think ahead, months ahead, for upcoming events so that they don't sneak up on you and you can enjoy your time more fully. I own a rental property and I have learned the hard way to plan ahead for advertising and renting of the property so that I am not even more stressed about finding the perfect tenant. My favorite tip is a notebook. I carry a small notepad with me everywhere. Anyone who knows me, knows I have a bad memory. This has been a lifesaver for me. I make lists in the notebook. I also write decorating ideas in it, fun websites to visit, I jot addresses, etc. Each day, I look at it, and start a new page. I eliminate what I have taken care of, and write again what I still need to accomplish. After writing “make your dentist appt” a few days in a row, I get tired of seeing it in the notebook and actually get it done! You can find cute, purse size notebooks in Michael's dollar section.

You have shared with me some great things about the High Point Museum. Please tell our readers more about it!
I grew up in High Point. My favorite field trip memory was one to the HPM in which I was allowed to make my own “waffle” in the fireplace inside of the house. I thought that was incredible. I am a huge fan of Laura Ingalls Wilder and pioneer life. As an adult, I had to take my girls there! They have attended a period tea party complete with a manners class. They have visited all of the historic out buildings on different occasions. They have learned how to dye Easter eggs naturally, make tin lanterns and jewelry. Very fun and educational.

Ok, now on to some less serious question. What is your favorite family activity?
Friday night “make-your-own-pizza and movie night”. We make personal pizzas, and while they are baking, we must ,must, must play I-spy while we wait the tortuously long 11 minutes for them to cook!

What is your favorite mommy time activity?
Having a cup of Starbucks and perusing decorating books and magazines in a quiet corner of Barnes and Noble.

What is the funniest thing your daughters have ever said to you?
Well, the girls really like to give dinner theater performances, and I do not remember the last time I laughed as hard as when they were reenacting the landing of the pilgrims, and the first Thanksgiving. They had a complete set, with an impressive ship (couch) with a porthole, anchor and waves. They kept putting the anchor up and down between each “scene”. The Native Americans saved the pilgrims from starvation and they danced together quite often in celebration. The lines were all led with the phrase “let us....” pronounced with a British/Australian combination accent. It was so priceless. Thank goodness for video cameras!

Favorite date place in the Triad?
Xia Asian Fusion restaurant. Fantastic food (love the edamame), a cozy, soothing atmosphere, great price!

Favorite place to eat out with the family?
Moe's on Kids night. You can't beat the price and we're guaranteed the opportunity to eat with friends once a week! You never know who will be there!

Favorite place to get a good deal on kids clothes?
My clothing sale, of course! Actually, I love the Chez Ami outlet sales. My girls love their styles and they wash and wear almost as well as Hanna Andersson.

What’s the Smartiest way you save money?
The Grocery Game! I am hooked. Go to www.grocerygame.com for details. In a nutshell, it is a weekly guide to using coupons to your best benefit. I never used coupons before this program was introduced to me by a savvy co-worker. I can buy 100.00 worth of groceries for 40.00-50.00!

Favorite park?
Hathaway Park in Winston-Salem. It's within walking distance from my home, the equipment is age appropriate for my girls and it has the great water mister they love so much! As a family, we enjoy walking their and playing tennis on the well-worn courts.

Favorite birthday party venue?
My home! I love throwing huge birthday bashes. I knew it was an addiction when my family deemed Emma's 5th birthday “Emmapalooza”!

Mini-van or SUV?
Mini-van convert after owning a luxurious but high-maintenance SUV.

I could not live without…
My husband. He is the best cheerleader ever. He always supports my half-baked dreams!

What do you like best about raising a family in the Triad?
Everything is so convenient! Wilmington was a small town, and it seemed as if we knew everyone. When we moved here, we didn't think that would be possible. In the past few years, I have noticed that W-S is getting smaller and smaller! I love it. I have met so many wonderful moms and I love that I can see at least one on every errand I run!

Thanks, Kari for all your Smarty answers! If you have any questions for Kari about her Children’s Boutique Clothing Re-sale Show, then email TriadSmartyPants and we'll forward your email to her.

Do you know a mom who goes above and beyond the call of duty for others, someone who does incredible work for her family and a charitable organization, runs a company and a marathon, or is just simply living the daily grit of motherhood? Then email me here your “Smarty Momination!"


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Friday, January 2, 2009

Finger Foods For Thought


By Ashley H, VP of Mommyhood x2, CharlotteSmartyPants

Let's talk dirty. Finger foods for babies and toddlers! Like many of you, I am committed to providing nutritious meals, as best possible, for my little ones. But as much as I try to maintain a variety of options for the twins to eat, I get in a rut sometimes and feel like I'm going back to the same foods over and over. So I wanted to solicit your help for putting our Smartiest finger food ideas together so we all have a great reference to source when we need it.

In addition to trial & error and kids cookbooks, another way to do this is create a finger food chart of the options you gather from the moms in your current playgroup, coworkers or gal pal get together. A girlfriend of mine, Laura, started one a few months ago by emailing us all asking for ideas on what we were feeding our babies and then one chart was compiled from all responses and emailed back out to the group. I got some great ideas and recipes I still use today!

My listing doesn't take into account those children with food allergies, so we'd love to hear from you moms as well. I know there are Smarty readers out there with children who suffer from many food allergies and would love to know what other moms offer their children.

Below are some of my twins' (now nearly 17-mos-old) favorite foods, though what they love one day they spit out the next. However, I continue to try to reintroduce the things they don't seem to like and some days they will eat what they hated the day before, that's toddlers for you! It's also tricky with twins when one is a great eater of anything and the other is more finicky. I just keep at it with my finicky eater, I can always serve at least one thing he likes and will eat. But, generally speaking they are great eaters overall.

Fruits
Bananas, pears, strawberries, blueberries, kiwi, grapes, watermelon, cantaloupe, pineapple, peaches, applesauce (I sprinkle a little cinnamon in)

Vegetables (I struggle here to get them to want to eat much)
Sweet potatoes with cinnamon and a little butter, green bean casserole, squash casserole, cooked diced carrots, creamed spinach, avocado

Whole Wheat Breads, Cereals, Other Grains
Mini bagels, Vans organic waffles, Pepperidge Farms makes a "Very Thin" sliced sandwich bread loaf (for sandwiches or toast) that is GREAT for babies/toddlers just learning, Cheerios, graham crackers, crackers, pastas, mac-n-cheese

Meats (organic)
Thinly sliced chicken breasts or chicken tenderloins cook nicely and are great sizes and easy to cut up for little ones (twins love BBQ sauce on their chicken too), they'll eat lunchmeat cubed or on the thin bread as sandwich, pasta with meat sauce (spaghetti, baked ziti, etc.), turkey or chicken franks cut up well to prevent choking

Snacks
Graham crackers, gold fish, vanilla wafers, yogurt (frozen GoGurts or fruit is great for hot summer days), Cheerios, Puffs, cottage cheese with fruit, cheese

Chime in and tell us what you serve your little Smarties, we could all use some new ideas!


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Thursday, January 1, 2009

I Y, Do You?


By Katie M

Happy New Year, Smarty Moms. 'Tis the season for New Years Resolutions, and it seems only fitting to blog about getting fit. Exercise is usually a favorite resolution, and either I'm really boring or I'm really disciplined (I'd like to believe the latter) but once again fitness is a top resolution for me.

Now it's not like I resolve to exercise because I haven't over the past year. Actually, as a stay-at-home mom, exercise is my outlet and "my time" and I make a point to get to the gym at least three days a week. Of course there are weeks that don't fit this ideal schedule, and sometimes there are weeks that I actually amaze myself (although those are rare), but I'm pretty tight with my schedule. Perhaps this is because I have - what I consider - the ultimate set up for exercising with children. And that is a membership at the YMCA. Below is information about programs offered at the YMCA (and these are generally the same from city to city) and the YMCA's Childwatch Program.

I know many people who choose to get fit at other gyms, but I have always believed in the YMCA for its incredible facilities, outstanding commitment to families (as evidenced in their daycare and family programs), and the unbelievable opportunities to foster friendships with other moms who Y like me.

First of all, I am a runner and I love to run outside as opposed to the treadmill. After I had my daughter, I was worried about getting back in shape because I thought my days of running outside were over - or I would have to resort to very, very early morning or late night runs - scenarios I have never been a fan of not to mention the inconvenience of both with a new baby. However, the YMCA is one of the few places that will actually let you leave the premise (as long as you bring your cell phone) and don't stray too far (usually within a five-mile radius). And, unlike other gyms, the YMCA lets you bring your baby as young as six-weeks (this may vary from location to location) - another huge bonus especially if you're trying to lose that baby weight.

But if you are not a runner, there are a million other reasons to join the Y, such as access to personal trainers (some are free with your membership); group exercise classes like Spin, Yoga, Sculpting, and Boot Camp among others; FitLinxx, a virtual coach to help you with your weight training goals; Mommy & Me classes for moms with newborns; an entire aquatics center with a swim team, swim lessons, and aqua aerobics; plus other programs such as community outreach, before and after daycare, free childwatch, etc, etc.

The Childwatch program is free to all members and is available to children ages 6 weeks to 11 years of ages. There is a nursery for children up to age 3, and then a bigger play room with a large climbing toy (similar to those found at Chick-fil-A and at Chuck E Cheese) for children ages 5 to 11.

One of the coolest deals at the Y is the Parents' Night Out program. Twice a month, the Childwatch providers will watch your children for four hours in the nursery and Adventure Room and serve dinner (usually pizza) for $10 for one child, $15 for two, and $20 for the entire family. Your children are also able to go swimming (if you give permission) and play on a huge blow up bouncy toy in the gymnasium. It's been great for my husband and I to have this outlet - we have used it to go shopping, do projects around the house, play tennis, go to an early movie or grab and early dinner, and yes - even participate in happy hour every now and then!

The Y also offers members a similar program for Moms Morning Out three days a week.

As a mom writing to other moms, I highly encourage you to check out your local YMCA if you are not already a member at another gym. YMCA of Northwest North Carolina serves Forsyth, Davies, Stokes, Yadkin and Wilkes counties, Winston-Salem's main YMCA (located in the West End) is called Central YMCA, YMCA of Greensboro has several branches, and there is also a YMCA for Greater High Point.

With the support of my local YMCA, keeping my resolution of exercise is never really a challenge, after all. Maybe that's why it's always my resolution, year after year :)

Please share with us your thoughts on the YMCA or other family-friendly gyms in our area - and we'd also love to hear your resolutions for the New Year too!

Enjoy your New Years Day!


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